Your 1989 Polo should have had an ISO connector - 1 Brown plug and 1 Black Plug - have these been chopped off by a previous owner?
If so, you will probably need to get a new iso connector to bare ends and wire it in. There is no switched power on the Polo (unless you tap into the 'X' line) so you can join the switch and permanent feeds to the radio together.
Thanks for that but what would you class as the 'x' line and where could i get some diagrams for this as im a usless stereo fitter.